Column: Warm Hearts in February With Non-Traditional Valentines
By Mary Ann Krems
February…a time of cold days, but an opportunity to warm hearts. Stores promote doing it by sending paper valentines and sharing candy. Those of you who are parents, teachers, neighbors, family members or youth leaders know that relationships are the keys to Asset Building.
Think of the SUPPORT ASSETS as valentines you can give for free: #1 Family Support, #2 Positive Family Communication, #3 Other Adult Relationships, #4 Caring Neighborhoods, #5 Caring School Climate and #6 Parent Involvement. The SUPPORT ASSETS are all about love, sharing, and caring. Youth and adults can model these behaviors for each other. Making someone happy with an ‘Asset Valentine’ can occur in many ways.
- Make a homemade message to send to a grandparent or older adult
- Taking the time to call someone older and thank them for being there for there.
- Doing small favors for siblings, friends, and others.
- Sending to your ‘tweethearts’, “You are special.”
Teachers can help youth feel valued by making sure ALL students receive an affirmation.
Parents can help youth feel valued by taking the time to let them know how special their child is to them. A note in their lunch box, on their pillow or even a text can mean a lot.
Finding a time to be of service…serving a meal at Salvation Army, visiting a nursing home and if you don’t know someone, ask the staff if there is someone there who would enjoy a visit.
Take the time to laugh and have fun with your family, even if weather keeps you inside.
As each day grows longer until summer arrives, our spirits can be lifted by the knowledge that we are building assets in youth. And because you care, every month can be one that offers youth the SUPPORT they need.
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Mary Ann Krems Portage County Alliance for Youth and Paul Vidas, President of Nvolved, Inc. (www.nvolved.com) Check us out at www.pcayouth.org and like us on Facebook.
